You’ve hit the wall. The title changed. The platform vanished. The identity you worked so hard to build… feels like it no longer fits.
You’ve always been the go-to. The high performer. But now? You’re stuck. Uncertain. Undone.
You don’t need more motivation. You need a map.
Introducing:
A step-by-step coaching process designed to help you reframe failure, reignite purpose, and rebuild your identity from the inside out.
I found Becoming Undone through social media.
Toby does a great job of navigating his guests through the triumphs of their lives. It allows a story to be told, and a picture to be painted for the audience to enjoy and learn from. I love how each episode has hidden gems for the listener to fully take in, from the masterful insight shared by he and his guests. Above anything else, Becoming Undone is a beacon of hope for me done with pure intentions, and that’s what keeps me coming back!
Assistant Athletic Trainer
Co-Captain, 1998 Arizona Football (Holiday Bowl Champions and most successful team in school history), Assistant Chief, Tucson Fire Department
Introduce yourself and share why you love Becoming UnDone
I came across the series, Life, Lessons, and the Legacy of Dick Tomey on Facebook and it is a near and dear topic. When Toby and I were able to collaborate on contributing to the series, I couldn’t wait. Toby’s episode and how he was able to dig deep on Coach Tomey’s impact was fantastic to talk about and share with others.
Toby creates the kind of space every guest hopes for—thoughtful questions, genuine curiosity, and a conversation that feels real. If you want stories of resilience told with heart, this is the podcast.
As a guest, I felt completely at ease. Toby listens deeply and makes the conversation flow naturally, which is rare. If you’re invited on this show, take it—you’ll walk away grateful you did.
CEO
You’re not broken. You’re becoming.
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